25+ signs that couples are going to break up: 'Couples who post about how much they love each other on social media [always] break up'

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    r/AskReddit. Posted by u/chiphotog 1 day ago What is the most obvious sign a couple won't last long?
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    JPK12794 1 day ago I always find couples who post about how much they love eachother on social media break up pretty quick. I'm not talking about like one post but the excessive ones. Recent example being a girl I know who posted probably every other day about how this guy is her world, she'd be lost without him, she misses him when he's not there etc. they were together about 3 months total. I just find it so obvious. 11.1k Reply Share
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    bkandwh 1 day ago Different argument styles. Shows contempt for spouse. Talks about each other to friends. 9.1k Reply Share
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    smolbibeans 1 day ago . They casually show signs that they don't respect each other: it can be a lot of eye rolling, mocking, condescending laugh, casually saying "you're so stupid", embarrassing in front of friends... 9.0k Reply Share
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    GodsBleed Too - 1 day ago . Their communication just doesn't improve over time. Being in my first real healthy relationship I've realized that both people need to be committed to their individual and collective growth to create a fulfilling, healthy relationship. If one or both people aren't trying and make a habit of withholding their true thoughts and make no effort to make the small changes to eventually meet the other half way, it's inevitable. 8.8k Reply Share
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    donttakerhisthewrong 1 day ago After I was married about 3 years a coworker that had been married for a few moths asked how long we lasted before we ran out of stuff to talk about. I figured that was bad sign. Reply Share 3.9k
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    Barrack64 1 day ago When they act as though they don't like or respect you. And when you point that out they say you're being too sensitive. 3.7k Reply Share
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    head2016 22 hr. ago When they fight with each other in a passive aggressive way in front of friends. Went to this dinner once where the guy was showing off his new plasma TV, and it ended up with the girl throwing one of his awards into the TV to smash it. Really uncomfortable to be a guest there. 2.2k ↓ Reply Share ...
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    Aggravating_Horse321 1 day ago Read an article somewhere where responses to bids for attention are a huge indicator. 2.1k Reply Share
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    542Archiya124 1 day ago See their conflict resolution process. ↑ 2.1k ↓ Reply Share
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    New-Bonus5383 - 1 day ago . One does not listen when one talks ↑ 1.8k ↓ Reply Share
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    No-Conclusion8653 1 day ago Look at their face when they get a phone call from the other person. Tells you all you need to know. Reply Share 1.4k
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    MeanOldGranny. 1 day ago Criticism, contempt, defensiveness, stonewalling: the four horsemen ↑ 1.3k ↓ Reply Share
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    NoUnderstanding5215 1 day ago attempting to transform the other person in its entirety. Never succeeds 1.2k Reply Share
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    Cautious_Cookie_2586 1 day ago Couples who mistake infatuation for love. 1.0k Reply Share
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    SecretConnect8463 1 day ago One of them seeks relationship advice in reddit. 823 Reply Share
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    Gijustin 1 day ago The relationship started with cheating 807 Reply Share
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    YourFan 1 day ago I would say no emotional connection. Like the other person cannot trust you and tell you what he feels or what he's been through or deals with right now. And here, I understand that some people need their time to open up and find their own words to express their emotions, I'm one of them. But I'm referring to people who don't even try, even for small stuff. Just to give an exemple: Normal day. You and your pal sit together. You ask them about some stuff that's been bothering hi
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    paradoxdefined. 23 hr. ago. edited 17 hr. ago My friend works in the wedding industry and said the couples who shove cake in each other's faces tend not to last. EDIT: Should have clarified. Only when it's clear it was not talked about beforehand. ↑ 726 ↓ Reply Share
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    Dr_Wristy 1 day ago Lack of trust. Not necessarily about the big stuff (fidelity, money, your real name), but namely in basic, everyday communication. If one or both partners is constantly questioning what the other person meant, or are constantly looking for reasons to get offended or taken aback by what the other says, it doesn't bode well for the long-term prospects. As a witness, you can feel the underlying tension when they interact. The stress of it all usually leads to resentment, and dis
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    CoralSpringsDHead 1 day ago When one tattoos the other's name on their body. Start the clock on that relationship. It will never last. 379 Reply Share
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    agreeingstorm9. 1 day ago Honestly, I'm not sure I know any more. I know couples who literally don't speak to each other about their day to day life and schedule and yet they're still together. I know couples who never ever talk about the big questions in relationships but somehow managed to white knuckle their way through it. I know couples who would openly disrespect their partner to their face in public and they still stayed together. Reply Share 375
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    Stock-Minute1218. 1 day ago • when they don't defend or support each other in public • when they make fun of their partner in a cruel way 354 Reply Share
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    TheChubbyPlant 1 day ago One says sorry all the time and the other doesn't 311 ↓ Reply Share
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    Conversation Least 902 22 hr. ago "Having a kid will bring us closer together and things will get better" Reply Share 271
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    legendary_millbilly 1 day ago Wanting to check the others phone. No trust... 211 ↓ Reply Share
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    ShawshankException 1 day ago I've found that there's an inverse relationship between the amount a couple posts on social media about their SO, and the actual happiness in that relationship. It's almost like they're trying to convince themselves there's no issues. 203 Reply Share

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